Creativity and the menopause
I happened upon a tweet by my friend Amy Palko over the weekend:
“What effect does menopause have on our perception of ourselves as intrinsically creative beings?”
For those of you who don’t know Amy, she is a writer, educator and creator of a wonderful site called Bloom by Moon, where she explores the moon cycles and the goddess narratives in order to help women reconnect with their sacred feminine. Those of you who are regular readers of this blog may recall that Amy graced the pages of Flashfree last year and contributed a beautiful piece on acknowledging our inner dark goddesses, a piece that remains close to my heart.
So, back to Amy’s question on creativity and menopause.
Menopause, as those of you who are in the throes, are swirling around the “peri” or fully past it know, is time of great change, not only in women’s reproductive systems but also in their lives. Although Western society in particular uses menopause as an overall characterization of an aging woman, it actually goes much deeper than surface and physical changes. In fact, it is possible that the emotional changes that coincide with the transition may be what fuels creativity, particularly as a woman moves deeper into her life and her ‘self.’
Consider that creativity is not an easily defined construct, nor does does it manifest the same in everyone. Just like menopause.
Consequently, perhaps we should change the paradigm, shake up the system, shake up our systems, our beliefs, our viewpoints and our “selves.” Isn’t it time to view the transition the start of the second half of a life’s journey, where the lines that have been etched over the time period leading up to menopause become more jagged, looser and flexible, and where women finally start to allow themselves to “be” who they are rather than who and how others define them? Is it possible that menopause is an opportunity to expand how women view the world and their roles as opposed to shrinking into a self-imposed myopic state of nothing? Can hormone-driven mood swings and depression be spun into threads of passion, ink on paper, colours on a canvas, wherever and whenever the creative impulse strikes? Can we take the anger we feel as parts our bodies betray us and use that anger to fight harder for better, less dangerous menopausal remedies?
As I said, creativity takes many forms.
The opportunities are endless.
I am literally standing on the precipice of age 50 and swirling in the ‘peri’ of the menopause. I have made a promise to myself to take the reins and to stop asking for permission. I am ready to control as much of my journey as I can. My creativity may ebb and flow but at the end of the day, I’d like to believe that it is what I will use to guide the rest of my life’s journey.
You too, have a creative self and a creative soul just ready to emerge. What is it telling you? Moreover, when are you going to take charge of it and allow it unleash its beauty on the world?
Let it out. There really is no other choice.
Read MoreMenopause: outlook and outcomes. Is it you? Or them?
When you start flashing and sweating, the whole world, especially the world under the age of 45, is watching and judging, right?
Not so fast. In fact, what I think you think, may not be what you think at all. In other words, personal attitudes about menopause and its symptoms could be shaping how well or poorly it’s experienced. And this experience may be based in beliefs, moods and perceptions, not reality.
According to research, many women say that menopause makes them feel “stupid, embarrassed, incompetant, unattractive, etc.”
However, more importantly, these women believe that others have the same thoughts about them, which researchers say are likely to influence the types of strategies women use to manage their symptoms, strategies that range from “keeping up appearances” to avoiding social situations altogether.
When I read this, I started to wonder if menopausal women are actually stacking the deck against themselves and contributing to societal attitudes about aging and menopause. What’s more, do women misperceive how younger adults feel when they start flashing around them?
To answer these questions, researchers polled 290 young men and women between the ages of 25 and 45. Almost two thirds were female. The questionnaire was geared towards answer the following:
- How are hot flash symptoms, namely redness and sweating, perceived when they occur?
- What types of beliefs exist around menopause?
- Is there any relationship between age, gender and perception about menopause?
Importantly, over half of those polled attributed a red face to emotions, e.g., embarrassment, anger or stress. However, while younger women tended to attribute redness to an increase in body temperature, younger men tended to believe that redness was related to physical exertion. Similar responses were provided for sweating, with women attributing sweating to a health problem and men, to environmental temperature. Hormonal factors and menopause were reported by less than half (41%) of men and women polled.
Also important was the fact that overwhelmingly, both men and women indicated that they felt empathy or neutral about symptoms and not at all uncomfortable, and almost all (97%) would inquire if a woman was feeling well or ill.
These responses truly suggest that menopausal women tend to overestimate the extent to which others are able to judge their menopausal status. Moreover, young men and women tend to empathize and show concern and compassion, emotions that are inconsistent with expectations that others will react negatively to a public hot flash or associated redness. Even more important, age did not appear to influence general beliefs about menopause, which researchers suggest implies that “the experience of menopause, or seeking information about menopause in mid life, might lead to more neutral or positive beliefs.”
So, what does this all mean? Granted, the sample in this study was primarily female and self selecting, meaning that they chose to participate or not. Therefore, it is possible that these findings do not accurately reflect the views of a broader population, especially men. However, the researchers do point out that they attempted to find participants from a variety of occupations that were more specific to setting where women might report a higher degree of social embarassment.
Nevertheless, what these findings do suggest is that real life might actually contradict how women feel others feel about their menopause, and that reactions might actually be tempered or non-existant in social settings. This should encourage a broader population of menopausal women to overcome their fear of embarrassment or to no longer resign themselves to “coping” but rather, empower them to take charge. On a larger level, they also show that there’s a need to step up and negate stimatizing or negative views of menopause, even amongst ourselves. This can be achieved through sharing of experiences, not only with similarly aged women but also, with younger women and men who can gain a lot of life experience at a considerably younger age.
The next time you start flashing in public and looking around to see who’s staring, just remember that it may be you, not them. And your ‘tude will truly rule the day (and those flashes), if you let it.
Read MoreCalcium, vitamin D and heart disease. What’s the 4-11?
“Calcium supplements cause heart attacks in postmenopausal women.”
Whoa! What?!
If you saw the headlines last week, you may be wondering what’s up with calcium supplementation. Afterall, don’t medical professionals advise the use of supplements to stave off bone loss associated with osteoporosis? And as a result, the Centers for Disease Control reports that over 50% of adults currently use calcium supplements and more than 60% of women over age 60.
It’s important to get away from the sensational headline and take a closer look at what the research shows and what you need to know.
Previous studies have suggested that there may be a link between use of calcium supplements (without vitamin D) and heart attack; in fact, as Reuters‘ reported last year, calcium supplements were shown to increase the risk of heart attack by as much as 31%, possibly as a result of plaque formation in blood vessels. However, is the risk the same if calcium is used alone versus if it is used in conjunction with vitamin D? In the Women’s Health Initiative study, the use of calcium and vitamin D did not appear to influence heart disease risk at all.
However, researchers decided to take another look at the data because they say that in this trial, more than half of participants were taking ‘personal calcium’ (i.e. not regulated or standardized to all trial participants) and almost half were also adding Vitamin D.
In this reanalysis, published just last week in the British Medical Journal, the researchers discounted the women who were characterized as personal users of calcium supplements and instead, limited their evaluation to a group of women who were not using personal calcium supplements at the study’s start and previously unpublished data from the trial. The findings? The use of calcium with or without vitamin D appeared to cause a 25% to 30% increase in the risk for heart attack and a 15% to 20% increased risk for stroke. However, the researchers say that even small increases in the incidence in heart disease may manifest substantially, especially in the elderly. They add that if you take a look at the risk-benefit ratio, it is unfavourable, meaning that taking calcium with or without vitamin D for five years would cause twice as many heart attacks or strokes than then numbers of fractures that would be prevented. Additionally, the data analysis suggests that dosing is not a factor, and that the total amount of calcium taken daily is less important than the abrupt changes in blood calcium levels immediately following supplementation.
Although this research answers a few questions about potential risks about calcium supplementation, it also leaves a key question unanswered: how does the addition of magnesium and vitamin K, which are often included in commercially-available calcium supplements, affect these findings? Data suggest that these minerals and vitamins are added to keep calcium in the bones where it belongs and out the arteries where it does not.
The best guideline, as always, is to visit a physician to assess your bone health and come up with a plan that works specifically for you. Although calcium supplementation appears to be risky, more data are needed before leading organizations start to change their tune about calcium and bone health. Meanwhile, stay ahead of the headlines and try to focus on increasing the amount of calcium-rich foods in your diet:
Food | Milligrams (mg) per serving |
Percent DV* |
---|---|---|
Yogurt, plain, low fat, 8 ounces | 415 | 42 |
Sardines, canned in oil, with bones, 3 ounces | 324 | 32 |
Cheddar cheese, 1.5 ounces | 306 | 31 |
Milk, nonfat, 8 ounces | 302 | 30 |
Milk, reduced-fat (2% milk fat), 8 ounces | 297 | 30 |
Milk, lactose-reduced, 8 ounces** | 285–302 | 29–30 |
Milk, whole (3.25% milk fat), 8 ounces | 291 | 29 |
Milk, buttermilk, 8 ounces | 285 | 29 |
Mozzarella, part skim, 1.5 ounces | 275 | 28 |
Yogurt, fruit, low fat, 8 ounces | 245–384 | 25–38 |
Orange juice, calcium-fortified, 6 ounces | 200–260 | 20–26 |
Tofu, firm, made with calcium sulfate, ½ cup*** | 204 | 20 |
Salmon, pink, canned, solids with bone, 3 ounces | 181 | 18 |
Pudding, chocolate, instant, made with 2% milk, ½ cup | 153 | 15 |
Cottage cheese, 1% milk fat, 1 cup unpacked | 138 | 14 |
Tofu, soft, made with calcium sulfate, ½ cup*** | 138 | 14 |
Spinach, cooked, ½ cup | 120 | 12 |
Ready-to-eat cereal, calcium-fortified, 1 cup | 100–1,000 | 10–100 |
Instant breakfast drink, various flavors and brands, powder prepared with water, 8 ounces | 105–250 | 10–25 |
Frozen yogurt, vanilla, soft serve, ½ cup | 103 | 10 |
Turnip greens, boiled, ½ cup | 99 | 10 |
Kale, cooked, 1 cup | 94 | 9 |
Kale, raw, 1 cup | 90 | 9 |
Ice cream, vanilla, ½ cup | 85 | 8.5 |
Soy beverage, calcium-fortified, 8 ounces | 80–500 | 8–50 |
Chinese cabbage, raw, 1 cup | 74 | 7 |
Tortilla, corn, ready-to-bake/fry, 1 medium | 42 | 4 |
Tortilla, flour, ready-to-bake/fry, one 6″ diameter | 37 | 4 |
Sour cream, reduced fat, cultured, 2 tablespoons | 32 | 3 |
Bread, white, 1 ounce | 31 | 3 |
Broccoli, raw, ½ cup | 21 | 2 |
Bread, whole-wheat, 1 slice | 20 | 2 |
Cheese, cream, regular, 1 tablespoon | 12 | 1 |
* DV = Daily Value. DVs were developed by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration to help consumers compare the nutrient contents among products within the context of a total daily diet. The DV for calcium is 1,000 mg for adults and children aged 4 years and older. Foods providing 20% of more of the DV are considered to be high sources of a nutrient, but foods providing lower percentages of the DV also contribute to a healthful diet. The U.S. Department of Agriculture’s Nutrient Database Web site lists the nutrient content of many foods. It also provides a comprehensive list of foods containing calcium.
** Calcium content varies slightly by fat content; the more fat, the less calcium the food contains.
*** Calcium content is for tofu processed with a calcium salt. Tofu processed with other salts does not provide significant amounts of calcium.
Diet? Exercise? Or both?
A novel study from the Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Center shows that combining dietary changes with exercise yields the best the results. While this isn’t necessarily surprising, it is important, especially as the metabolism starts to slow as we grow older.
So what’s the 4-11 on this study?
Previous studies have shown that moving your body is important, not only for maintaining weight but also for preventing conditions like osteoporosis, which is a huge problem for both men and women as they age. Other studies suggest that watching what you eat, both in terms of calories and content, are key. You can check out those posts here. But how do the two strategies differ when it comes to weight loss?
To find the answer, researchers separated 439 overweight or obese (by body mass index > 25) postmenopausal women (average age 58 years) into four groups:
- > 45 minutes of moderate to vigorous exercise, 5 days a week (225 min/week), including walking/hiking, aerobics and biking with the goal to reach 75% to 80% of target heart rate and 45 min/daily exercise
- A weight loss strategy based on a daily intake of 1,200 to 2,000 calories comprising <30% from fat coupled with individual and group dietary counseling, diet journaling and weekly weigh-ins, with the goal to achieve a 10% weight loss
- A combination of exercise and weight loss per above
- No intervention
Over the course of the 1-year study, women in the diet group lost 8.5% of their total body weight (a mean 15.8 lbs) while those in the exercise only group lost 2.4% of their overall weight (mean 4.4 pounds). However, women who participated in both diet and exercise strategies lost 10.8% of their overall weight (mean 19.6 lbs). Moreover, although all women who had some active intervention lost inches off their waistlines, the greatest decline — almost 3 inches –was in women who watched their diet and exercised regularly. The same pattern was observed for the overall percentage of body fat that the women lost over the course of the study: 4.2% for diet alone, 1.6% for exercise alone and 5.9% for a combined strategy.
Importantly? The researchers say that when women added the 5 days weekly of exercise to a diet program, however tedious and time consuming, the majority were able to attain the 10% weight loss goal. They add that both the American College of Sports Medicine and the US Department of Health and Human Services Physical Activity Guidelines Committee suggest that current activity level recommendations (which are roughly 30 minutes daily) be upped to as much as 60 minutes per day.
Granted, this is a hard pill to swallow. It’s difficult to find time in daily schedules to exercise as much as an hour a day AND eat properly. And lord knows, it’s not easy. Can you do one or the other? You can, but the best strategy is both.
A few tips to get you started:
- Start slowly and build up over time.
- Don’t beat yourself up if you miss a day or cheat on your diet goals. While moderation is key and diligence is important, so is the occasional cheating! Deprivation is not a rule, ever!
- The same goes for missing a day of exercise. And remember, a little is better than none at all.
So the skinny (pun unintended) is that the greatest potential lies in doing the greatest amount possible. The only thing at risk is your health. And that’s a pretty big deal.
Read MoreMonday Bubble: Cool..er, chill your sleep
Monday Bubble? Say what?! Yeah, I’m shaking up the week a bit with a Wednesday Bubble on a Monday. Hey, why not?!
Got sleep issues? Nightsweats getting you all hot bothered (and not in a good way)? There’s yet another solution!
First there were cleavage coolers. Then the Bedfan and Chilipads. Then the Chillow. And now….
Yup, Cool Gelmats…the “wonderfully cool sensation that’s enough to take your breath away as you feel yourself drawn into a cool, comfortable land of slumber.” Theoretically, the gel acts to absorb heat and then disperse it to help you stay cool. And it keeps its cool without refrigeration (definitely a benefit because you might need an extra fridge to store the gel mat). Heck, you can even fold it and take it camping or on trips (w0nder if it would make it through the TSA?).
More amusing? It’s the ‘perfect partner’ to get you through the hottest of summers (and I guess, sweats).
I’m all for cooling. I’m all against night sweats. But how many coolers does one need in one’s life? Personally, I’ll stick to the devil I know. Nightsweats are a bitch. But there are ways to shut them down without resorting to pads and rubber chickens for the menopausal set.
Brrrrrr. Chill this one no.
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