I miss being noticed. Being desired. But also realizing what an enormous amount of energy used go into defense--to trying to be invisible. And how much more powerful I feel now that looking men in the eyes isn't taken as an immediate come-on. I look, I smile, I own the moment.
mamieduff Miss Mamie - you more than own moments; I have been in your presence and you are a force.
Liz Darling Liz! I laughed out loud and am humbled by the honor you do me. Nothing I would love to be seen as so much as "a force"! Hopefully for good!
Ha! That same invisibility put to great advantage. Great first-thing-in-the-morning joke, lizscherer . :)